*This post is sponsored by Pampers and Babies “R” Us. I received free promotional items in exchange for this post. All opinions are my own.
As a mother of four, I am well-versed in the art of diapering. I have changed a diaper every single day for the last eight years. We are nearing the “finish line” of diapering, and I’ve learned just how important it is to find a reliable diaper. Pampers Swaddlers are the #1 choice among hospitals, and is the softest diaper Pampers makes. (We love them!)
I wish I had known from the start just how important it is to choose a QUALITY diaper. Now that I’ve been around the block a time or two (or four!), I’ve learned a few things. Here are a handful of tips I wish I’d known when I started my journey as a mother.
1. Relax!
With our first child, I was a bit neurotic. I kept charts of minutes slept, minutes spent playing, feeding times, amount eaten, etc. I had pages and pages of notes and felt the need to document every waking minute of my child’s life. It was crazy – and knowing how long she was sleeping at night vs. during the day didn’t change anything.
Fast forward to my fourth child – where I realized it was fine to let her sleep when she was tired, and eat when she was hungry – not spending all of my energy trying to document her schedule. Lightening up and working with her natural schedule was SO much easier – and you know what? Both girls started sleeping through the night about the same time.
Do your best to stay relaxed. I found that having a more laid-back approach to parenting my newborn was more enjoyable for everyone, and gave me more energy to focus on caring for and enjoying my little one. They were a lot more fun than neurotic note-taking.
2. A Family That Eats Together…
Our first child ate purees, yogurts, and “kid” food until she was 2 years old. My husband was working full time and going to school full time, so I almost always made her a separate dinner – and usually defaulted to those classic “kid” foods. Towards this end, it was SO hard to get her to begin to eat a wider range of foods – especially healthier options. We finally got there, but it took A LOT of work!
With our fourth child, I had learned my lesson! Harper began eating what we were eating as soon as she showed an interest in solid food. Whenever I could, I made what we were eating for dinner available to her. Now, she is a two year old who LOVES any and all veggies, and readily eats anything I put in front of her.
3. Quality Counts
I am a girl who loves bargains. Just about any store I enter, I immediately start scanning for the clearance racks, or hunting for those little discount stickers. With our first baby, naturally, I wanted to save money. We bought several “off” brand diapers – and paid the price! I won’t go into detail about the “poosplosions” we encountered – but needless to say, we found that our child’s clothes stayed cleaner AND they slept through the night better with a quality diaper.
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what do i wish i would have known before my child, that stock up on as much as you can before, to make it easier on yourself.
I wish that I would have been able to comprehend how quickly the time goes by when you have kids.
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Wish I had saved more to prepare for all the high costs associated with kids.
What a great giveaway!! We just found out that SURPRISE we are expecting #3!! I totally agree with the wisdom to be relaxed and enjoy every money—- and invest in a good diaper 🙂
I wish I had known to take it easy, relax, not give in to my anxiety. I was a basket case with my first child. I did not even want anyone to hold them and walk at the same time.
I wish i’d known how little of sleep i’d get, but I love being a mom 🙂
I wish I’d listened to people who told me how little sleep I’d get! Didn’t think it’d be that bad
all! as bathing, as I feed him.
I wish I had known that I will not be able to have time for myself after my baby is born
What I wish I would of known is simple ~ it doesn’t stop after your children grow up. The love that you share with your children, multiplies greatly when you become a grand parent ♥ never ending love ♥
Wish I’d known I’d have 4 kids and no sleep!
I wish I would have known how quickly time goes by. I miss my baby. She is growing up way too fast.
I wish I had known it is expensive, more expensive than I could have imagined.
Save, save, SAVE as much money as possible.
How fast they grow up, I wish I would have appreciated the time a little more then I did.
I wish I had known how to relax a little bit!
I wish I would have known how I would be on my child’s schedule and that everything revolved around it.
What do I wish I’d known…to relax a little and not worry so much about their schedules and eating/pooping/etc. 🙂
I wish known how little of sleep
I wish I had known that you can love your second baby just as much as you love your first. I had a terrible second pg because I didn’t think that I could love that baby as much as my daughter. I was so very wrong.
I wish that I had known to get more sleep.
Wish I knew how little sleep I would get. definitely rest when your baby is sleeping.
I wish I would have realized how much sleep deprivation effects me. I think I could have prepared a little better
I wish I had understood just how quickly they grow up.
I wish I’d known “you cant spoil a baby” – with my first, I took a lot of old school advice and regret it. My kids thereafter I followed my gut and never regretted it.
I wish I’d have known to ignore most of the advice that I was given. I just needed to trust myself!
I wish I had known what to do with schedules beforehand
I wish that I knew how sleep deprived I would be, and I learned to nap when the baby did, let all the housework wait.
I wish I had realized from the beginning that no mom is perfect and that it is okay to make mistakes.
I never realized how little sleep I would get….worth it!
I wish I had really known how much it costs to take care of them.
I wish I had known all of the help that is out there for breastfeeding. I felt alone and had a difficult time with it. It also took a huge emotional toll on me. I don’t regret breastfeeding though, it was what was best for me and my baby. Thanks for the opportunity
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I wish I had known you really don’t need many clothes for the first 6 months. They grow out of them so quickly that you only need a weeks worth.
Not that it would have made a difference, but knowing the cost of raising a child would have been nice.
I wish I had known how important it is to take time out for yourself!
I wish known how little of sleep I would be getting.
I wish that I had known that losing sleep doesn’t stop when your children start sleeping all night, But that you also losing sleep worrying about your children.
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To take lots of pictures and recordings. Kids grow up so fast!
How fast time flies…
How to take naps anywhere at anytime and enjoy even the smallest moments with my children. It goes by so fast.
I wish I had known that the most important thing is being patient, and not expecting perfection from myself or my child.
I too wish I had known that I still wouldn’t sleep because of worrying.
How important it is to take time to continue “dating” my husband. It was so great for our relationship when we got a babysitter and started going on dates again.
I wish I had known how quickly time flies and they aren’t little for very long.
I wish I would have known how quickly the kids grow up. I would have taken more pictures.
I wish I’d known how painful it would be to “let go” and watch them fly.
I wish I would have known how fast time would go and to relax and enjoy all the special moments
I wish I had known how fast the time would go, they are grown now with kids of their own.
I knew I needed to save money, but not how much! I definitely should have saved well over a grand before having my son! He is 6 months old now, and is continually costing us money!!! Which is fine, of course! BUT, if I had some saved up, we would be better off!
I wish i had known how time goes by so fast.